Single travel: Tips for going solo

Of course, single travel has its perils too — such as safety concerns, loneliness and the like. But a little preparation and common sense can get you through the rough spots. 

Solo travel can be the ultimate self-indulgence; you can rest when you want and pour it on when you’re feeling ambitious. Another benefit is that your mistakes are your own, and your triumphs all the more exciting. There is no need to compromise when travelling alone. No need to appease a friend’s unfortunate craving for an overpriced burger and fries, or their incessant complaints about mosquito bites in a jungle. You can do exactly what you want to do — all the time. Travelling solo, you’re more immersed in your surroundings. You notice the unique quirks, and subtle character that truly makes a place what it is. Distance also makes you appreciate the people who matter most in your life back home. Far away and alone, you’re reminded to make the most of every second with loved ones when you return. 

Perhaps the foremost concern of the solo or single traveller is safety. Without a companion to watch your back, you are more vulnerable to criminals and scam artists, as well as simple health worries. Here are a few tips: Know how long it takes and how much it costs to get from the airport to your hotel or to the city centre. Solo travellers are more likely to be taken for a ride, so ask the taxi driver for an estimated fare before you leave. Carry good identification, in more than one place. Keep to open and public places, especially at night. Exude confidence and walk purposefully. Avoid appearing like a tourist. Don’t draw attention to yourself by wearing flashy clothes or jewellery. Lie a little. When asking directions, don’t let on that you are alone. Ask “Can you direct me to the museum? I have to meet a friend.” 

One of the best reasons to travel alone is to meet new people, but this also makes you more vulnerable. It’s okay to hang out, travel and share with new friends, but you might not want to ask them to hold your money. Scam artists can often be the most charming companions you’ll find; you want to be open-minded, but keep your guard up enough to ensure your safety. 

Eating alone isn’t so bad. But many solo travellers (and frequent business travellers) hate dining by themselves. However, there are a few simple things you can do to not feel so lonely while grabbing a bite. Chat with the service people. Waiters and waitresses are some of the best locals you’ll find. Cafe and outdoor dining is often attractive to single travellers; sitting alone with a book in a cafe isn’t as unusual as a table for one at a fancy restaurant. Choose a counter seat or a seat at the bar. Female travellers can check out a site called Invite for a Bite, which organizes meetups for meals with other women.